What does one want? If this simple question can be answered clearly; half the battle is won. A lack of understanding of the question will bring forth answers that lead to further questions. In all our activities, if we know the why of it, the how of it would be a lot easier. Involvement not imposition, inclination not inducement, selection not seduction, are the key ingredients to get things right. There are plenty of perspectives but a lack of clarity comes along with it. Is it possible to enjoy disappointments? Read to find out.Decision-making, risk-taking and being at crossroads are some of life challenges that need to be faced squarely, confidently and substantively. Why do we miss the obvious? Is it because we are oblivious to what is happening around us? If all our efforts address the core question of what we really want, we shall have taken the bull of perpetual dissatisfaction by its horns.