Spectacles of my life

The spectacle in general, as the concrete inversion of life, is the autonomous movement of the non-living.

— Guy Debord, The Society of the Spectacle

The Spectacle is the inverted image of society in which relations between commodities have supplanted relations between people. As a commodity, the spectacular is developed to the detriment of the real. The quality of life is impoverished, with a lack of authenticity that human perceptions are affected.

The author wants to describe her own perception and philosophy, which she observed when he matured.

The author was born into a small, well educated family. She is inspired by this fact and talks about her grandmother and grandfather.

When she was in childhood he feel that all the people around her want to create sympathy. But sometimes she noticed that same people's around her want to irritate her that she became angry and frustrate.

Her parents always taught her that education was a must for her because she was the only princess of her father in her family. who had blockage in the oesophagus by birth. She was a very poor student in her childhood, and her father constantly chastised her. She can't do anything in her life. But the scolding dialogue of her fate encourages her a lot. When she was in seventh standard, she started to worship the goddess Saraswati.

She received a 10 from the CBSE BOARD and then enrolled in class eleventh, commerce group, without mathematics. Her school principal was very rude to her. But she overcame all of its obstacles and received a twelfth grade from the CBSE BOARD. She then enrolls in a B.Com (computer) college affiliated with Rouhilkhand University, Bareilly. She then wanted to test herself to see if she could care for herself when her parents were away.she spend 2 years in Hostel.After that she Do B.Ed and M.ed .After that she come to Delhi for banking professional courses. In Pg she met a friend Nane Sadhana Sharma belongs to Gorakhpur. She spent 6 months with her. The both became true friends. After that they both went Noida and do the ICICI prudential sales training. But both of them were rejected. In the same company I got selected in the Nyka company. Training was going on her parents called her for engagement. With in four months she got married to the handsome guy.

I don't want to marry in my life but due to some reason she did that. She sacrifices all her feelings and thoughts as well as intension a side. Start obeying his husband and in-laws but she always here negative and abused words of her husband and as well as in-laws. But she have Paitence and keep his mother shut.

She wept aside from family members. When she wept in her room in the bedroom at night, her husband thought that she was acting to come near to me. He never came to stop me and didn't hug me or ask the reason for our weeping. He always blamed it on your acting. if we don't follow your matter, she starts weeping all the time. This was the thinking of her husband as well as her in-laws. She makes a decision for herself. She gets engaged in some domestic as well as outside work. She finds an interesting job. After that, she also faced the same abuse from her family and in-laws. Her parents did not also stand for her. She feels herself alone and unsafe.

People never understand her perception before making a comment. She was going to go into a depression. teaching primary children in the evening and joined offline after a lot of struggle for her husband and in-laws.

After that, she stops thinking and gets engaged in herself by watching movies and writing as well as doing acts that make her happy and pleasant.

Finally, I want to say that all the girls who want to make a career in their own field, please do not stop them. Do encourage and support their daughters in pursuing a career before marrying.

When all her ideas have failed, She stopped thinking and serving her in laws and husband. She should stop bothering people with negative attitudes and make the decision to pursue education and learning on her own, without relying on her husband, in-laws, or real parents.

My real life experience says that the life of my daughter is struggling too, so there is a request for parents to please educate their child. Don't stop her for her professional plateform and her performance. She can do better for your son's Shi is the only single person in your old age.If you give her professional freedom, she will definitely give you respect beyond your expectations.