What is Love according to me?

you might be thinking I will tell you a story, but today I'll tell you a truth you might have never been told. Love is not just a word. It is poetry in itself. How do you know you're in Love? You don't have to know about it, Your heart tells it to you when you don't understand the sleepless nights just thinking about the same person. The lost mind and soul...

The feeling of loneliness when they are not around. The journey from wanting presents from people to the presence of ONE person. That is love. Love is not just wanting a person for yourself. You'd want them to be with you in your memories and all sunshine and rain. You want them to be with you on their cute and sweet terms. Them to be protective towards you. They accept you as their best friend, share their problems, and talk to you as if you are their diary. Love is when you are hurt all the time. Nothing seems alright, but you still want the same person to love you back over and over again. You know the fact that starting a relationship is very easy, ending it is easier. But the fight you have to fight daily, at every moment for your love is the hardest part of any relationship. And that my friends are where we lack, we all lack commitment to love. I might sound fanatic when I say that one must date their best friend only because, your best friend is the only person who will know you the best. They know when you are sad when you need to be cheered or when you need some space.

Everyone in this world has this one person who is equally retarded as themselves (don't ever leave them).

Love is that moment when you want to cry with the other person, but you can't because you won't cry if the two of you are together. You might never know when the other person is faking around you. Your brother here will set your thoughts free. A person who truly loves you might not always give you costly gifts, but whatever he can, he'll gift it to you with all the love and respect he has in his heart. He might not be able to defend you always but he will stand up even if he knows that could mean the end of him. He cares for you more than himself and sometimes even tells you, but that doesn't mean he is doing you a favor that just means he's had a bad day and needs you with him. He will always be there for you even if it is 3 at night. (well if you call me at 3 AM, I'll kill you). He will be jealous if you talk to others, but will never show it. For him, you are the most important person in this world. Even if he has a very important meeting with someone else, he would prefer spending that time with you once you tell him. That's love.

He doesn't want anything special or expensive in return, he just wants one simple thing that too not because he is doing so much for the relationship, but that's because he also has a heart, he expects you to stay with him forever and never leave his side. True love can't be expressed in phrases like "I love you" or "you're my life" but it is expressed with all the moments you cherish together. All the moments, if they are actually memorable for the both of you.

WHen you read the chats, you just smile and you are lost in that moment. You want to be there and you just wish you could have said so much more, but you, can't you then think of telling them then, but you can't because true love is expressed by the number of times the other person unblocks you after a fight.

There are 3 things that people mistake being one amongst all of them. People usually misinterpret flirting or lust as love. But is it? Flirting is just loving someone's words. Lust on the other hand, is falling for someone's beauty. But Love... it's when you fall for the soul, everything about the other person just attracts you, even when there is complete silence between the two of you just the presence of your partner will give your heart peace.

You will know it, when you go around. meet new people, and visit different places, but the void deep in your heart still exists longing for someone. Someone you did not be with, instead of these trips. It is that sensation when you are amongst all the people in the crowd, glad that one particular person was there with you.

Love can't exist without fear. If the fear of losing the other person doesn't scare the shit out of you, my friend you were never in love.