Attachment

Heard a word today, "attachment" Well, we all have heard it many times.But today a friend of mine told me that "Attachment is injurious to health"

Did it really be true or not? I think this is totally wrong ,In this world if we are happy or living together in a family, there is emotion for everyone so what is bad in it

It is not wrong to be attached to someone or feel something for him/her . If your feelings are true, your intentions are right, So there is no harm in attachment.

These feelings of ours keep us connected to each other, worrying, waiting, being happy in someone else's happiness are many things that keep us connected.And this is called attachment , These feelings are not necessary if you are human, then you will be attached to humans, it is not like that at all, we have animals, objects, places, things states. We can have attachment to anyone , I told you what these feelings were after all

You know, after all, these statements are "attachment is injurious so health" why it seems right to everyone these days. Because they didn't even know: what would have happened: or maybe they did, but have forgotten .

In today's generation, if someone talk to u with a smile, then people say that I am very attached to him/her or I may be very close to him/her. But is it so?

That's it: the problem that no one can understand . I'll give you an example pet dog in your house: so do they repeatedly tell you that they should eat or give them meds or is their belt broken? No, but still you fulfill his every need without speaking to him. Just for his safety, his happiness.

In the same way, if you are attached to someone, do not expect him to be attached to you too. But you should always keep this feeling for that person. it's called real attachment His smile should never be lost because of you, always remember this Even if he doesn't know you, but if he ever needs something, you should be with him.

Listen, there are very few people who get those people whom they wanted to meet in their life. Whoever such people are, they are very lucky. But that does not mean that those who do not get it remain incomplete. They do not get good in their life, they get the best but only need patience.

Because you know, we often choose the wrong person in a hurry. I do not mean that that person is wrong, I may say that this is a mistake, we choose that person for ourselves who is not made for us, so he should be proved wrong. But if we do not know this, then we give our 100% to him, but

When we don't get anything in return or it goes away, then we break with our soul, we get sad, and cursing that person. And then accept the fact that "attachment is injurious to health" And maybe because of this again, whenever the right person is in front of us in the future, we do not even give him a chance for fear of being broken again.

So just remember one thing, it is very good to have attachment: but because of this it is wrong to raise expectations. And yes, if possible, until you feel that the person in front of you is also attached to you, then take care of your feelings and leave it to yourself only.

because someone said

बड़े कम ही होंगे,

जो तेरी मुस्कुराहट के पीछे छिपे आशुओ की वजह पूछेंगे ...

तेरी खामोशी के सोर को सुनेंगे,

क्योंकि हर मोड़ पर मैंने दिलो का खिलवाड़ होते देखा है....

Now, the last and most important thing there is a very big difference between attachment and love

So if you have attachment with someone then don't give it the name of love. Love is totally different in compared to attachment Yes, I believe that the first step of love starts with attachment. but that's not love

The biggest difference between love and attachment is that it is necessary to have a body ,We need such a thing that we can see because it is necessary to have things in the attachment. , but love is not physical, love is spiritua So it's totally wrong: attachments are injurious. Infact Attachment gives us peace and courage The only condition is that the attachment is with the right person. And if the person has chosen wrong then don't expect him to have attachment with you.