Behind every long marriage is a private story of
• hearts learning to listen to each other, slowly and imperfectly;
• discovering what it means to live for oneself and with another;
• the lessons life reveals only through companionship;
• finding meaning in togetherness, one season at a time.
This memoir opens the door to ours.
Over the years, a metaphor for our marriage began to be visualised: two icebergs floating side by side. When two people fall in love, what is seen above the water are the similarities that draw them together. But once life is shared, the submerged parts begin to be revealed - the differences that were always present but unseen, conflicts acting as the “global warming”.
This is not a grand adventure or a tale of dramatic victories, but the quieter story of a couple learning how to live, love, argue, rebuild, forgive, and grow
- again and again.
Not a story of perfection, but of partnership with all its complexities.
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Prakash V Gudnavar, Ayyamma Prakash
Prakash V Gudnavar hails from Kamatyanahatti in North Karnataka. He studied in Kannada-medium government schools. After earning M.Tech in Computer Science & Engineering from NITK, Surathkal,
he worked for 15 years as an embedded software engineer at Texas Instruments and Infineon. He has explored organic farming for a year and volunteered with Landmark Education for 6 years. In 2014, he co-founded
BeMe, a democratic school in Bengaluru. He also manages finance and compliance for Pozibility Technologies and serves as his apartment treasurer. He has led children on long-distance cycling trips, treks, and triathlons. He loves math, science, yoga, adventure, and reflective living.
Ayyamma Prakash Gudnavar hails from Kodla in Gulbarga district and studied in Kannada-medium schools before completing her B.E. in Electronics & Communication Engineering. A seasoned VLSI engineer, manager, and entrepreneur, she has over 26 years of experience in ASIC design with roles at Intel, Magma Design
Automation, Qualcomm, Broadcom, and Tata Elxsi. In 2016, she founded Pozibility Technologies, a semiconductor design services company in Bengaluru. She is also developing an organic farm near Hosur. She brings a spirit of adventure, openness, and deep care to family and community life.
