Many marriages struggle not because love is missing, but because respect is slowly lost. Couples may care deeply for each other, remain loyal, and share responsibilities, yet live with constant tension, suspicion, emotional distance, or silent suffering. Importance of Respect Between Spouses explores this overlooked truth with clarity, depth, and compassion.
Based on real-life observations, this book examines how subtle forms of disrespect—sarcasm, public humiliation, dismissal of feelings, ego clashes, emotional withdrawal, and silence—gradually erode trust and intimacy. It shows how love becomes unsafe when dignity is not protected, and how unresolved disrespect gives rise to drama, insecurity, and loneliness within marriage.
The book looks closely at both perspectives—when wives disrespect husbands and when husbands undermine wives—without blame or bias. It also highlights the often-ignored impact of marital behavior on children, who silently absorb patterns that shape their future relationships. Cultural conditioning, gender expectations, and ego-driven conflicts are examined with honesty and balance.
Most importantly, the book offers hope. It provides practical insights on restoring respect, communicating during disagreement without humiliation, breaking cycles of drama, and building daily habits that protect love.
Written for couples at any stage of marriage, this book is a mirror for self-reflection and a guide toward peace.
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M K Devidasan
M.K. Devidasan, a retired Wing Commander of the Indian Air Force, served for thirty-two years before transitioning to a full-time writing career. His debut novel, Her Miseries, published in 1993, was digitized by the Michigan University. Since then, he has authored forty novels and fifty-five non-fiction books, including his memoirs “My Air Force Days”. His nonfiction book “In Search of Happiness in Marriage – Secrets Revealed for Happy Marriage” won the Golden Book Award in 2023. The best-selling novel “Marriage in Heaven” was filmed in Malayalam, titled “Krishna Kripa Sagaram,” which was released in theatres on 1st December 2023
